Change Your View, Change Your Situation

Christine Michelle Hayes Author

Hi Gorgeous!

Your Mindset matters so much when it comes to anything in your life.  In this article, I talk about how it is all your choice how you view your situation. The way you view your situation will either change your situation or keep it the same.  

 

In this article find out:

• 1) The Choice is Yours
• 2) Two (2) Ways to Change Your View Quickly
• 3) How Quickly Your Situation Can Change
  
  
  

CHANGE YOUR VIEW AND WHAT YOU SEE CHANGES

The first step to change something is to change your view.    Wayne Dyer says, “Change the way you see things and the things you see change”   

These are really powerful words.  

In essence, if you change the way you view your situation and your situation will change.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS

Recently, I experienced a challenging situation.  I was at that crossroad point where I had the two choices.   Both Choice 1 & Choice 2 are available to you TOO!  Let’s say that you are having a difficult situation.  What choices do you have?

CHOICE 1

One choice you have is to look at your situation in a negative light and go down the rabbit hole of negativity and disdain.  

This is the choice where you stay where you are.  This is where you get to wallow, cry and stay upset.  When choosing Choice 1, you call all of your friends and complain.  You talk and talk about the same stuff over and over.

Choice 1 is YOUR CHOICE.  There is nothing wrong with Choice 1.  

You have the power to choose whatever you desire.

My question to you is:  

How quickly do you want to move forward out of your situation?  

If your answer is fast, then Choice 1 is not the choice you want to choose.  

When you choose Choice 1, you don’t move out of your situation.   You stay where you are and you don’t MOVE FORWARD.   When you choose Choice 1: You will continue to stay where you are if you continue to see it the way it is.


 

CHOICE 2

The second choice you have is you can choose to see this as something that is happening FOR me and not TO me.

You could fully feel what is going on.  

You can choose to accept and love yourself and how you feel.

You can choose to see the reasons why this is happening and focus on why this situation is a turning point for me. 

Two Ways to Change Your Situation Quickly

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TWO WAYS TO CHANGE YOUR VIEW QUICKLY

(1) JOURNAL IT OUT

Pull out your Journal and Write about all of the reasons:

• Why this happened and how this situation is working out for you
• How it is ok to feel how you felt
• How you love and appreciate yourself fully
• Why you know that your life is going in the direction that you desire it to go
• Why from this day forward you are choosing for it to shift and you decide that it will be like this and this. 
  
   

(2) CONNECT WITH HIGH VIBE FRIENDS

You could call one of your high vibe friends and tell her (or him) what is happening and tell her the truth that you know about it and speak your shifting out loud.  You can tell her what great things are happening in your favor because of this situation. Connecting with her is going to help continue to lift your vibration higher and higher.

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This is a growing group of people mostly high vibe women who are on their own Manifesting Journeys and ready to Consciously Create their amazing realities.  Nothing is too big or too small. Find a place where you can ask for help and provide help or a great quote or encouraging word.

Surrounding yourself with a support team or people who will stand with you in whatever your dreams are will help you succeed.  Surrounding yourself with people who believe the same thing or are doing better than you helps you to level up.

Keep reading to find out what I chose?  

How Quickly Can Your Situation Change

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HOW QUICKLY YOUR SITUATION CAN CHANGE

Your situation can change extremely quickly.  

CHOICE 2

I chose Choice 2.  

I chose to see the whole situation as something that was working FOR ME.  I chose to see the positive.  

It was happening FOR me.  I looked at how I was showing up.  I looked at the situation as a FOR vs. AGAINST.  

What happened? 

 

My situation started to look VERY different.  It showed me that I should continue on my path and in the direction that I have been going.

Did the situation feel great?  NO.

Was I sweating’ RAINBOWS and UNICORNS?  NO.

But when I changed my viewpoint I STARTED to slowly FEEL a tiny bit BETTER immediately. When I woke up the next morning I FELT WAYYYY better about what had happened.

THERE IS NEVER ANY SHAME WITH ANY CHOICE

There is no shame in choosing Choice 1.  We have all done it. All feelings are here for a reason and if I chose to wallow and continue to feel sad or hurt or angry that would have been fine.  BUT it would have prolonged my situation AND it would not have FELT GOOD.

in this situation, I chose the better feeling scenario. 

 

I chose for ME. I chose to FEEL a little bit BETTER and now I feel SOOOOO much better.  

Then the next day, while I was feeling a little bit better I received two inspired ideas that I am acting upon RIGHT NOW!  

Look….

If I would have chosen to wallow and feel sorry for myself, I wouldn’t have been OPEN to RECEIVE SOLUTIONS from Guidance.

If I would have chosen to wallow and feel sorry for myself, I wouldn’t be taking action and moving my business forward the way I am.  

If I didn’t choose to look at this situation as working out for me, I wouldn’t be looking at that situation as a blessing and as proof that I am on the right path.

If I decided to look at this situation as negative, I wouldn’t be feeling this good right now.

NEXT TIME SOMETHING YOU WEREN’T EXPECTING HAPPENS

Next time you are faced with a situation upsets you or makes you feel as though you aren’t doing something right, make a choice on how you are going to view it.

Change your view.

Change how you look at it and choose the better feeling view.  I promise not only will you feel good but good will come out of it.

JOURNAL PROMPT

What are 3-5 things I can love and appreciate about my current situation?

Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

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