Most Important Thing To Be Grateful For

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Hi Gorgeous Soul!


In this article, I talk about The Most Important Thing for you to be Grateful for.  When you start to feel grateful for yourself you will begin to see massive changes in your perspective that will allow you to show up as YOU.

In this article, read about:

  • (1) Who is Arya Stark & Why is She No One?
  • (2) 3 Ways to Truly Practice Loving Yourself
  • (3) VIDEO:  Manifest the Lover You Want By Focusing On this 



When gratitude is taught, often most teachers forget one key thing.  This article will discuss The Most Important Thing to Be Grateful For.  When you learn to do this, you will see a massive change in your perspective that will allow you to open up to truly showing up as YOU.


Feeling gratitude for YOURSELF and appreciating where you are at this moment is so important.  All too often in the Transformation Industry, you are programed to believe that there is something about you that you need to change in order to begin living your best life now.  



Feeling gratitude for YOURSELF and appreciating where you are at this moment is so important.Click To Tweet








There is nothing wrong with you and nothing wrong with loving yourself. There is an infinite supply of Love. You loving yourself doesn’t take love away from you loving others.  In fact, the more you practice love towards yourself and There is absolutely nothing wrong about loving yourself.   Loving yourself is more than bubble baths and pedicure appointments.  


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Here are 3 things that you can do to truly practice loving and appreciating yourself that no one else is recommending:

  1. Have the Hard Conversations
  2. Eliminate Tolerations
  3. Speak to yourself the way you would someone you love







You are constantly putting everyone else’s feelings before your own.  Think about that time when you knew that you didn’t want to go to that party but your friend wanted to so you “sucked it up” and went anyway.  Then when you got there, you ended up not having a good time or getting a flat tire.  Finally, when you got home you wanted to kick yourself for once again not doing what you knew you wanted to do.



It is important for you to finally be honest with your friends or family when there is something that you don’t desire to take part in or do.  When you are honest and approach the situation from a place of complete and total love (for yourself and for them), you will be surprised at their reaction.  


Having hard conversations will mean putting yourself and your feelings first sometimes.  When you truly connect to your heart and evaluate the situation, if it is something you truly do not feel led to do or experience, be honest with yourself and your friend.  Because it is ok for you to CHOOSE YOURSELF and REFILL YOUR TANK and focus on something you wiLL ENJOY.




All that being said, REMEMBER, the most important person for you to have the Hard Conversations with is YOURSELF.  

  • Are you truly being honest about what you are thinking and feeling?
  • Are you allowing yourself to be completely aware of what is going on inside of you?  


When you begin to take a hard look at where you are and truly are honest with yourself about where you desire to be, then and only then can you rise up and allow yourself to leap into your next level.


Leveling Up is 100% about you telling yourself the truth, having the hard conversations, making the scary choice and moving forward in trust knowing that your Soul always knows the direction to take.



When you begin to take a hard look at where you are and truly are honest with yourself about where you desire to be, then and only then can you rise up and allow yourself to leap into your next level.Click To Tweet







What are you doing that you know you do not want to do?  Is there anything that you are tolerating in your life?  Think about something that you can easily allow yourself to let go of that will allow you to fly just that bit higher.


When you are honest with yourself, you can find things that you are doing or situations that you are “enduring” that you would prefer not to.  You do things to “keep the peace” or “be the good girl” or “not rock the boat” or “to keep things as status quo because these things aren’t bothering you enough…yet.” 


Eliminate these Tolerations and you will see a huge difference.




  • Disorganized desk – You hate it but you allow it to remain because “it isn’t hurting anyone.”  Well, to be honest, it is hurting somebody and that somebody is you.


  • Working every single day – You are exhausted but you feel that you need to work this hard because you just started your business.  However, you believe once you get over the hump then everything will be ok. Well, the truth is you need to take a step back and allow the Universe/God/Source space to move. Taking time for yourself is an act of surrender. It is also an act of trusting and knowing that the Universe is on your side. Let go of the reigns. You can’t control Everything.


  • Staying in the relationship – You are bored to tears in this relationship.  You aren’t inspired nor are you supported by this man but you stay.  You tell yourself that you stay because you think it is easier than being alone.  But I have news for you.  It staying is suffocating you and your growth.  By staying, you are not allowing yourself to leap into the success that is waiting for you.  So tell me, is staying really easer?


  • Not starting your business – You know deep in your soul that you are meant for more.  You dream every day about having something you call your own.  However, even though you know that you were born to be the boss but you stay right where you are.  You stay in your current job because it feels comfortable.  You never take the leap to even if it is the small steps to start creating your dream now.  By you not taking the tiny steps to start your business, are you really safe?




Success & Abundance Quiz






Speak to yourself in love.  You have been taught since you were a child to be hard on yourself.  When you were a young girl, you were taught that if you aren’t hard on yourself you will never succeed.  Because of this, you speak horribly to yourself and you push yourself to the brink. You think by saying horrible things about yourself you will not slip. You call yourself stupid and dumb.  


Before you speak to yourself a certain kind of way or think negatively to yourself, ask yourself one of these questions:

  • Would I speak to my child this way?  
  • If this were my best friend, would I speak to her this way?



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I bet your answer is No.  You treat others with more kindness and love than you do yourself.  This is what you have been conditioned to do.  However, like I said earlier in this article, there is no shortage of Love or Kindness.  Go ahead.  It is ok to give yourself the same love that you give to others.


Throughout the day, remember to take a moment.  Instead of having the same berating conversation that you always have with yourself, stop to think what would you say to your friend or lover or child in this same situation. 







The 5 Day Gratitude Challenge

The 5 Day Gratitude Challenge

In Day 4 of the Gratitude Challenge, today’s video is all about Love.  Often in relationships you think of the bad.  This is understandable.  The relationship is over for a reason.  But now that it is over, you think of all the things that your former relationship was missing instead of thinking of what good had.  

In this video, you learn:

  • Why appreciating what was there is the key to manifesting more of that good and
  • By looking at what was good will lead you to Uplevel Relationship.

This can be utilized in Family, Friend and Intimate Lover Relationships. Enjoy!


Your Gift this Series:

  • Relationship Appreciation Worksheet



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Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

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