How to Start Living By Your Own Rules

How to Start Living By Your Own Rules

Hi Sexy Soul!

 

Why don’t we change the rules?   In this article, I talk about rules and why the truly are made to be broken and what you can do.

 


Read to find out:

 

  • 1) What Wendy Williams did that I Couldn’t Ignore
  • 2) How my former coworker cleavage-shamed me
  • 3) JOURNAL EXERCISE: How To Create Your Own Rules

 

 

Rule: One of a set of explicit or understood regulations or principles governing conduct within a particular activity or sphere.  

 

 

 

WHAT WENDY WILLIAMS DID THAT I COULDN’T IGNORE

When Wendy Williams admonished Kim Kardashian for taking a picture of her body, I really tried to ignore it.  

 

I really did.

 

 

Wendy Williams (l) Kim Kardashian West (r)[/caption]

 

 

I like both women but the more I tried to ignore it the more annoyed I became. It was evidence of the “rules” …those darn rules popping up again.  

 

Why don’t we change the rules?

 

Really…WTF does it matter to Wendy Williams or anyone how Kim shows her body.  If Kim wants to show her body to the world all day every day…it’s her body she can do whatever the hell she wants to do with it.

 

Kim looks amazing.  She is proud of the shape she is in after two pregnancies and she has a right to post whatever pictures she wants to post.  

 

Not only did Wendy make a comment about Kanye not being able to “Control Kim” ???? but Wendy also said that Kim “Made too much money” to have to do that.” ???

 

But let’s be clear…the reason why Kim and her family are so successful is because they do not stop being who they are “because they hit a certain tax bracket.”

 

The reason why they are so loved (and so hated) is because they are who they are regardless of who is watching.  This is why they are able to be so successful. This is why they are able to reach heights that most of the greater public never will.

 

What I gather to bet is that there is a little bit of Wendy that wished she could have the confidence to show up in the world like Kim not caring what other people say.  

 

And don’t get me wrong, Wendy is very bold and confronting.  Wendy doesn’t withhold her tongue for anyone.

 

But the way she came so hard for Kim has me thinking that there is something else behind that.

 

Remember the things that frustrate or trigger us have to do with what we have going on inside.  Check out my article on Triggers ==>HERE : Triggers Are About You

 

 

 

HOW MY FORMER CO-WORK CLEAVAGE-SHAMED ME

To bring this to a more personal situation, back when I was still working in Corporate America, I was at work and one of my former female colleagues decided to point out that my cleavage was showing.  

 

She was concerned because there were male co-workers in the area.

 

Well DUH.

 

 

 

I was quite taken aback.  I always prided myself on being professional over my years in corporate so this got to me.  My shirt wasn’t “unprofessional”. The shirt wasn’t even a deep v-neck.

 

I am a woman with curves and ample chest so I have cleavage in ANY SHIRT I wear.  

 

I am sooooooo proud of my breasts and I have too much style to Little House on the Prairie it either.   

 

HOLD UP WAIT A MINUTE

 

I finally took the time to really think about it.  

 

I came to the conclusion Fuck it – I’ve got big boobs. I wear v-neck shirts because they look best on me and if anyone is uncomfortable turn your head.  

 

Honestly, some man’s inability to control his own physical body (eyes and whatever else) at my place of employment is not my problem.  

 

Why is it OK to shame women for whatever they do with their own bodies?

 

It’s not.

 

What is the difference between the IG picture and a picture in a Victoria’s Secret catalog or some other magazine? NOTHING just some rule.

 

What is the difference between a man’s bare chest and a woman’s bare breast?  NOTHING except for some rule created by some person hundreds of years ago.

 

This world has so many rules and most of them contradict each other.

 

Rules like:

  • It’s ok to wear a barely-there swimsuit but the booty shorts nope that’s wrong
  • It’s ok for this single guy bachelor to kiss every single girl on the show but Bachelorette Rachel… oh no she is a super slut cause she kissed some guys to see if she could have a connection with them.
  • A woman can’t wear that sexy dress anymore.  Why? Oh because she is a mother now?
  • A woman needs to cut her hair because she is over 40.
  • Girls are to be good, close their legs, cover their bodies, don’t show cleavage, etc, etc…  

 

 

 

 

Enough is enough.  

 

 

Rules?  

 

We create them.

 

We choose to follow them.

 

We can choose to CHANGE them.

 
 
 

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Journal Exercise:  3 Steps to Creating Your Own Rules

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JOURNAL EXERCISE:  3 STEPS to CREATING YOUR OWN RULES

 

(1) DETERMINE WHAT RULES AREN’T WORKING FOR YOU

Take inventory to your life.  Ask these questions:

  • What rules do you feel aren’t allowing you to live fully as you desire?  
  • What kind of life do you want to live?
  • What rules are you buying into that isn’t allowing you to live that life?

 

 

(2) CHANGE THEM TO SOMETHING THAT WORKS BETTER FOR YOU

  • What rules does the YOU who ALREADY lives your desired life live by?
  • What is #normal and #ofcourse for her”?
  • Write your new list of Rules.  State them in the present because they are now the rules you live by.

 

(3) REPETITION

  • Every day, re-write your new rules.   
  • Read the rules aloud with feeling and certainty so that you shift your subconscious and it becomes your DEFAULT way of living.

 

 

Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

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READ TO LEARN

  • Why Receiving is Equal to Giving
  • That the Universe Is Your Sugar Daddy.  Find out how to work with the masculine & feminine energy
  • How to Quantum Manifest by becoming a Master Receiver
  • What the Shadow Archetypes In Receiving are and how to integrate them quickly
  • The 90 Day Play by Play to Receiving more money, love, relationships, health and whatever else you desire
 
 

Becoming The Aligned Receiver will change your life.  Finally, tap into your birthright of Abundance of ALL THE THINGS including Money, Joy, Love, Health and so much more.

  • No More Push - Struggle - Overwhelm
  • Go from having No Money to Receiving Overflow
  • Learn to Receive with Ease
  • Do Less & Receive So Much More
  • Listen to Your Intuition and receive Guidance with Ease
 
 
After reading The Aligned Receiver and doing the exercises you will:
  • See the massive shifts and changes and finally witness The Universe come to your aid.
  • Allow receiving to become a #normal for you.
  • Embrace ease and flow as your natural states.
  • Allow your dream life to be #ofcourse.
  • Show up in the world as your Best Self NOW
  • Lift your vibration and the vibration of those around you just by living your best life now and showing them what is possible.

 

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5 Things To Learn From Cardi B

5 Things To Learn From Cardi B

Hi Gorgeous!

 

There are so many things you can learn from Cardi B success as a musician and entrepreneur.  In this article find out:

  1. Who Is Cardi B and why you need to know
  2. 5 Things that Cardi B Knows about Being a Successful that You don’t

 

WHAT CARDI B KNOWS THAT YOU DON’T

I have news for you.  Cardi B knows more about Business and Being a Brand than YOU DO!

 

Did that trigger you?

 

GREAT!

 

 

When something triggers you it is GREAT.  That means that something is coming up and ready to be acknowledged! 

 

It means there is some judgment there.  There is something telling you that you are thinking differently than your soul. 

 

It means there is some truth in that statement.  If there wasn’t you would laugh and say ok. You would say “Well great for her” and you would move on with your day.

 

Ok…Take a few deep breaths and read further to see why.

 

When I say that she knows more than you about being a successful entrepreneur I mean that she is embracing a few simple concepts that are the reason she has been able to do what she does successfully.

 

 

WHO IS CARDI B

Belcalis Marlenis Almánzar now known as Cardi B, is an entertainer, hip hop artist, songwriter, and television personality.  When Cardi showed up on the scene she was known for speaking her truth on social media and becoming memes and organically drawing hundreds of thousands of people to her accounts.  

 

Then she stepped on to the Reality TV stage on a show called Love and Hip Hop New York and continued to be unapologetically who she was.  Her laugh was engaging.  In a world that can feel overproduced and unreal…she was AUTHENTIC.  She embraced all of what other people may see as flaws.  She was loud and expressed opinions that others did not agree with.

 

She was (and is) everywhere being more and more of HERSELF.  She was (and is) Standing TallREADY to be seen.  She began to see more and more success.

 

She was on other shows playing herself.

 

Her music took off.  She was on TOP of the Music Charts and became the first female rapper without a featured artist to earn a #1 single on the Billboard Hot 100 in 20 years! She also has surpassed my spirit performer Beyonce as the FIRST woman to have 5 Top 10 singles simultaneously on the Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart.  She is also only the 3rd artist to achieve this distinction (others are Drake and Kendrick Lamar).

 

And now… She has a deal with Steve Madden.

 

steve madden campaign with cardi b //What CardiB knows that You Don't // Cardi B knows more about being successful and creating a brand than you do. Take a notes, implement and learn how to be more you. #cardib #business #successfulbrand #mindset

Steve Madden campaign with Cardi B

 

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5 THINGS YOU CAN LEARN FROM CARDI B

What can you internalize from Cardi B’s success?

 

Here are a few simple concepts that if you were to embrace them fully, you too could be more successful in your business or career and your life.

 

 

(1) Cardi B doesn’t care what you think.

 

 

 

Cardi B is unapologetically herself.  You don’t like or agree with her lyrics?  She doesn’t give a f*%k.

 

She doesn’t perform for you.  She performs for herself. She performs for those who are moved by what she says and can relate to what she has been through.

 

She makes music that she connects with and if you don’t… she doesn’t care.  She has lived a life that a lot of people including myself cannot relate to but that doesn’t matter to her. Her desire is so strong and she is doing it her way.

 

Successful people all have CONFIDENCE.  When you are being yourself and stepping into who you truly are the confidence that you have can be felt.  Your products or services thrive because you believe in yourself and your message so fully.  You don’t censor yourself and you speak whatever is true for you now.  And YES you can do all of this with LOVE

 

You stand up and speak your thoughts in meetings.  You are the leader because you are not because they appoint you. Speaking your truth and acting upon your intuition doesn’t mean that you will hurt people.  Quite the opposite. You are going to attract those who are ready for your message.

 

Successful people all have CONFIDENCE. Be yourself & step into who YOU truly are & your confidence will be felt.Click To Tweet

 

 

(2) Cardi B loves what she does.

 

 

 

She thrives on performing.  When you watch her perform you can see that she is ALIVE.

 

She is the ultimate entertainer.  She loves sharing videos about herself and her art in whatever way feels most creative for her.

 

She enjoyed entertaining when she was dancing…

 

She flourished when she was showing up on the screen in people’s homes every week… and She is in her element in her videos and on the stage as she raps her songs. When you LOVE what you are doing, the energy you feed into it whatever you are doing is infectious.  The people who you attract can sense that LOVE.

 

What are you doing with your life?  Are you creating something you love?  Are you sharing what you love?  You don’t have to be an entrepreneur to love what you do.  Be honest with yourself and tell yourself what you enjoy and seek ways you can bring more of that into your life.

 

 

(3) Cardi B speaks what she wants into her reality.

 

 

She said money was easy BEFORE it was flowing to her in mass amounts.  She spoke about having luxury items and money in her bank accounts BEFORE it was there.  She was throwing money in the air and letting it rain on her BEFORE she had it in abundance. She called herself a queen of fashion BEFORE she stepped foot into any fashion shows.

 

The Universal Law of Attraction and Vibration requires that you ALIGN with the feeling of having what you desire BEFORE it can manifest into your life.  

 

If you want to be successful you need to think about the feelings you believe you are going to feel when you are enjoying the success you desire and start feeling those feelings NOW.  You need to start speaking as you would as the Successful Person NOW.

 

 

(4) Cardi B is her Brand.

 

 

As Cardi has become more and more successful, she hasn’t adjusted her voice or dimmed her light.  As she continues to grow in the success she stays herself. She never has to struggle to figure out what to say.  

 

Why?

 

Because she is her brand. Her brand is centered around her being herself.  You can never run out of topics when you are speaking your truth.  Her life is her topic and life continues to give the gift of content all day every day.

 

If she was being anything else other than her herself, then she would need to look outside to find things to rap about.  If she wasn’t the essence of her brand, she would have to look to the masses and ask them what they want to hear. But because she is her brand she can talk about whatever she wants to talk about.  And the people who resonate with her message find her.

 

Are you being yourself in your business or at your office?  Do you hide parts of yourself trying to be more “professional” or trying to be more like the other people around you?

 

Success happens with EASE when you start to let all of that go and completely love the person you are inside and out.

 

 

 

(5) Cardi B believes in herself.

 

 

Cardi B isn’t putting herself down and doubting her abilities.   She isn’t looking at other Instagrams and the Facebook feed second-guessing her flow.

 

What does she do?

 

She says she is the best.  She is confident in what she has.  She is her own cheerleader.  She knows her worth.  She believes that you should be excited to purchase whatever it is she is selling because she knows it is that good.

 

When you KNOW you are WORTHY when you KNOW that you are MORE THAN ENOUGH, you are CONFIDENT and you can truly help the people you desire to help.   You can make the difference you have always wanted to make.

 

 

 

WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE GOING FORWARD?

Am I saying that we should all be like Cardi B? 

 

Well if you got that from what I wrote you missed the whole point.

 

NO Of course NOT.

 

Cardi B and her story isn’t YOUR STORY.  Her passions aren’t YOUR Passions.  Her way of expressing herself isn’t YOUR WAY.

 

What I am saying is in order to be super successful you have to BE YOU.  100% YOU without holding back or trying to be perfect.

 

Be unapologetic.  Stop caring what people say.  Stop focusing on the 5 people who didn’t like what you said or did or created.  Your message or product will not please everyone.

 

Isn’t it awesome that there are over 7 Billion people in the world and all you really want are a few hundred or thousand people who resonate with who you are and what you are offering?

 

Focus on why you love everything about what you are saying and creating so you can attract the hundreds of thousands who align with that love and adoration.

 

Follow your heart and Do what LIGHTS YOU up.

 

Listen to your inner knowing and ACT upon what you hear.

 

There are NO LIMITATIONS except for the ones you create for yourself.  I know you can be as successful as you BELIEVE you can BE.

 

 

JOURNAL PROMPT

If you could do or say whatever you wanted with no consequences what would you say?

 

In your journaling have fun with it.  Remember to dig deep. Keep asking yourself why you responded in a certain way.  And get to the bottom of the reason why you aren’t doing whatever it is now. THEN, shift to what you want to do.  Write about what you desire it to be as if it has already happened!

 

 

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Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

Be Her Now | Take AlignedSoul™ Action Today

 

PS:  Are you Ready to go from "Not Enough" to "Abundant AF"?  It's been one year and the book you have been asking for is finally HERE. 

 

 
 

Pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 
 

The Aligned Receiver lays out the essential woo-woo spiritual plus the do-practical play by play for manifesting a life beyond your wildest imagination. Learn how to confidently receive your desires.

 

READ TO LEARN

  • Why Receiving is Equal to Giving
  • That the Universe Is Your Sugar Daddy.  Find out how to work with the masculine & feminine energy
  • How to Quantum Manifest by becoming a Master Receiver
  • What the Shadow Archetypes In Receiving are and how to integrate them quickly
  • The 90 Day Play by Play to Receiving more money, love, relationships, health and whatever else you desire
 
 

Becoming The Aligned Receiver will change your life.  Finally, tap into your birthright of Abundance of ALL THE THINGS including Money, Joy, Love, Health and so much more.

  • No More Push - Struggle - Overwhelm
  • Go from having No Money to Receiving Overflow
  • Learn to Receive with Ease
  • Do Less & Receive So Much More
  • Listen to Your Intuition and receive Guidance with Ease
 
 
After reading The Aligned Receiver and doing the exercises you will:
  • See the massive shifts and changes and finally witness The Universe come to your aid.
  • Allow receiving to become a #normal for you.
  • Embrace ease and flow as your natural states.
  • Allow your dream life to be #ofcourse.
  • Show up in the world as your Best Self NOW
  • Lift your vibration and the vibration of those around you just by living your best life now and showing them what is possible.

 

Remember, pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT  - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 

 

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Focus on What You Want

Focus on What You Want

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT

Focus, Surrender, Do You (Your Soul) Series: Part 1 – Focusing On the Past will Manifest More Past

 

Hello Gorgeous Soul!

In this article, I talk about one of the most important factors in manifesting what you want.  This 3 part series focuses on one of the most hated Bachelors (which is totally unwarranted in my opinion) Arie Luyendyk.

 

Here is Part 1.

 

 

For those of you unfamiliar with the show (who are you??) The Bachelor, it is a show where the main suitor has 25-30 women that he dates and he slowly eliminates them until he has 2 left and then he proposes to the last one who is THE ONE.  In this case, Arie was in love with the final two women.

 

Long story short, Arie fell in love with two women.  He wanted to be with Lauren B, however he proposed to Becca K.  However, after a few weeks of mourning that loss he breaks up with Becca and goes back to Lauren.

 

 

FOCUS, SURRENDER, DO YOU (YOUR SOUL) SERIES

In this 3 article series, we will go behind the ENERGETICS of the Situation.  This is where the fun starts and where you can learn how to reduce the DRAMA in your life and shift to co-creating what you REALLY WANT and NOT what you DON’T WANT.

 

Part 1: Focus: The Important Key to Manifest What You Want: I will show you why Lauren focusing on what she doesn’t want drove the man she loved into the arms of the other woman.  (YOU ARE HERE)

 

Part 2: Surrender: How to get your ex back: I will show you how letting go played a BIG ROLE in Lauren and Arie reuniting.  Spoiler Alert: Lauren and Arie are now married and about to have their first child.

 

Part 3: Do You (Your Soul): 4 Necessary Components of Living from Soul: I will talk about why Arie is the most “hated” Bachelor but he is living his best life despite the haters.  Following your Soul is a Key Component to this.

 

This article is all about Part 1: FOCUS.  

 

Find out:

  1. How Focusing on the past creates more of the past
  2. Focus on what you want
  3. Shift before it is too late
  4. 4 Ways to shift your focus from the Past
  5. Journal Prompt to becoming aware and shifting

 

ARIE’S 2 LOVES

Lauren B (left) Arie (center) Becca K (right) – picture courtesy of ABC.com

 

Arie was in love with the idea of Becca K.  She was easy.  She was confident in his love for her.  She seemed to know her worth. She seemed to be sure of herself.  His family liked her outgoing nature. Her energy was popping, etc etc.

 

Arie was very in love with Lauren B.  But she was challenging.  She was unsure. She wasn’t as confident.  His family adored her but she seemed quiet.  She wasn’t as bubbly. She seemed to need reassurance.  She seemed that she would not fit as easily into Arie’s life.

 

 

FOCUS ON THE PAST CREATES MORE OF THE PAST

Lauren B (my personal favorite Season 22 of The Bachelor) and Arie Luyendyk- the Bachelor had this electric connection.  It was a deep connection that could be felt. The way he looked at her was the way you wished the man you love looked at you.  He was drawn to her and she to him.  The love was undeniable.

 

Unfortunately, Lauren B has experienced some massive heartbreak in her 25 years.  Because of her previous bad experiences, she was hesitant to open her heart.  She was very quiet and closed off and Arie had to constantly reassure her of his feelings and his love.

 

 

Despite knowing how Arie felt about her and knowing that she was in love with him, Lauren B continually focused on the possibility of Arie leaving her at the end of the show.  Lauren allowed her painful past experiences to cloud her beautiful present.

 

When you focus on your past experiences, you manifest more experiences similar to your past.  This is why you hear quotes about doing something different in order to manifest something different.  

 

I like to say that you have to feel, think, intend and act differently in order to shift into something different.

 

By Lauren focusing on what she experienced in the past, heartbreak, heartache, being hurt and not the one selected, she manifested more of the same.  Lauren’s persistent focus on being hurt or having been hurt didn’t allow her to shift the reality where she loving and being loved by the love of her life.

 

Check out my FB Live video below which talks about my thoughts on Lauren B and her focus on what she did not want.

 

 

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FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT

Focusing on what you do not want can ruin even the most shoo-in situations. In my article, 5 Ways to Improve Your Focus I provide 5 practical ways you can improve your focus.  Check this out to look for more ways.

If you are reading this you are most likely very very aware of the Law of Attraction – like attracts like.  However, the Law of Vibration is a law that you most likely do not pay attention to.  

 

The Law of Attraction and the Law of Vibration work TOGETHER.

 

Everything is energy.  Everything is vibrating at a specific Vibrational Frequency. In order to align with something, your Vibration has to match the Vibration of that thing, situation, experience, etc.  

 

What is Vibration

Your Vibration is made up of your Thoughts which makes up your Emotions which creates your Feelings.  Then you also have your Intentions/Decisions, your Desires, and your Actions.  All of this makes your Vibration.

 

Lauren’s thoughts, emotions and feelings were all focused on LOSING Arie.  She was focused on what would happen if Arie selected someone else. Her vibration was aligned with loss.

 

Focusing on what you do not want can ruin even the most shoo-in situations.  

 

The way you manifest the life of your dreams is to ALIGN your VIBRATION with what you DESIRE.  

 

You cannot focus on what you DO NOT WANT and create the life you DO .

 

What you focus on GROWS.  

 

You GET what you FOCUS on.  

 

So FOCUS on what you DESIRE.

 

 

SHIFT BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE

Basically, Lauren was worried that now that she opened her heart to Arie she would lose him.  She was 100% vulnerable with him but her focus was all about what if he chooses the other woman.

 

Her thoughts were focused on losing Arie in the end so what happened? She constantly thought of what if he didn’t choose her.  What if her heart was broken?

 

Eventually, Lauren goes to Arie, she opens up. The couple has the most amazing last two dates.  For him, she is finally the woman he has known was there all along.

 

Lauren opens up the way he has been waiting for BUT unfortunately for her it was too late.  The energetic momentum was too strong in the opposite direction and he was carried away into the arms of Becca.

 

When the time came for Arie to choose, he proposed Becca.  When you watch Arie as he proposed to Becca, he didn’t look like a man proposing to the love of his life.  He looked distracted. He looked like a man who wished the other woman (Lauren B) was standing in front of him.  But with the vibration that was consuming Lauren, the energy wouldn’t allow him to go in the direction where he wanted to go.

 

 

4 WAYS TO SHIFT YOUR FOCUS FROM THE PAST

 

(1) GET IT OUT ON PAPER

Use your writing to release it.  Give it a voice. Look at it and acknowledge it.  Then tell yourself the truth.

 

(2) GET MOVING

Exercise and move stagnant energy.  Take 30 minutes to shift your focus from the past to the here and now.  Take the time to take care of YOU.

 

(3) TALK TO SOMEONE

Hire a Coach or talk to a high vibration friend.  Working with a coach can help you see things differently and shift immensely quickly.

 

(4) LET IT GO

Surrendering and letting go of the resistance will make all of the difference.  In the next article, Part 2 I discuss

 

 

JOURNAL PROMPTS

1) Where am I focusing on what I do not want?  

2) What do I really desire?

3) What ways can I shift my focus to what I truly desire?

 

JOURNAL PROMPTS: 1) Where am I focusing on what I do not want? 2) What do I really desire? 3) What ways can I shift my focus to what I truly desire? Click To Tweet

Awareness is EVERYTHING. Just becoming aware of whatever it is allows you to CHOOSE something different.  It is all in the DECISION. If you are creating drama in an area of your life, you can acknowledge it and choose whether or not you want to continue.

 

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HOW DID LAUREN ATTRACT HIM BACK

As you may know (SPOILER ALERT) Arie and Lauren ended up getting back together.  Looking at the situation and listening to her interviews, the ENERGETICS ARE CLEAR.  Want to know how Lauren “got her ex back”? Check out Part 2 tomorrow.

 

I get so many questions about how do I get my EX Back.  How can attract the guy I want? In Part 2 of this Focus, Surrender, Do You (Your Soul) Series, I will talk about what Lauren did to allow Arie to come back into her life.  They are married and at the time of this article expecting a baby girl and super happy.

 

WHAT TO EXPECT

Like we did in this article, I will go behind the ENERGETICS of getting your ex back and provide 9 Practical and Woo Woo Steps to aligning with receiving the love of your life.  This is where the fun starts and where you can learn how reduce the DRAMA in your life and shift to co-creating what you REALLY WANT and NOT what you DON’T WANT.  

 

Part 1: I talked about why Lauren focusing on what she doesn’t want drove the man she loved into the arms of the other woman.  

 

UP NEXT

Part 2: I will show you how letting go played a BIG ROLE in Lauren and Arie reuniting.  Spoiler Alert: Lauren and Arie are now married and about to have their first child.

 

Part 3: I will talk about why Arie is the most “hated” Bachelor but he is living his best life despite the haters.  Following your Soul is a Key Component to this.

 

Until next time Remember your only job is to FEEL the FEELINGS, Be HER NOW and take AlignedSoul Action.

 

Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

Be Her Now | Take AlignedSoul™ Action Today

 

PS:  Are you Ready to go from "Not Enough" to "Abundant AF"?  It's been one year and the book you have been asking for is finally HERE. 

 

 
 

Pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 
 

The Aligned Receiver lays out the essential woo-woo spiritual plus the do-practical play by play for manifesting a life beyond your wildest imagination. Learn how to confidently receive your desires.

 

READ TO LEARN

  • Why Receiving is Equal to Giving
  • That the Universe Is Your Sugar Daddy.  Find out how to work with the masculine & feminine energy
  • How to Quantum Manifest by becoming a Master Receiver
  • What the Shadow Archetypes In Receiving are and how to integrate them quickly
  • The 90 Day Play by Play to Receiving more money, love, relationships, health and whatever else you desire
 
 

Becoming The Aligned Receiver will change your life.  Finally, tap into your birthright of Abundance of ALL THE THINGS including Money, Joy, Love, Health and so much more.

  • No More Push - Struggle - Overwhelm
  • Go from having No Money to Receiving Overflow
  • Learn to Receive with Ease
  • Do Less & Receive So Much More
  • Listen to Your Intuition and receive Guidance with Ease
 
 
After reading The Aligned Receiver and doing the exercises you will:
  • See the massive shifts and changes and finally witness The Universe come to your aid.
  • Allow receiving to become a #normal for you.
  • Embrace ease and flow as your natural states.
  • Allow your dream life to be #ofcourse.
  • Show up in the world as your Best Self NOW
  • Lift your vibration and the vibration of those around you just by living your best life now and showing them what is possible.

 

Remember, pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT  - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 

 

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No One is MORE Privileged than YOU

No One is MORE Privileged than YOU

Hi Gorgeous!

No One is more privileged than YOU.  There is no one more privileged than you!  In this article I share my woo-woo practical take on this idea.  Read about:

  1. No one is more privileged than you
  2. Not buying the belief in Privilege
  3. You Co-Create Your Reality
  4. Jim Crow couldn’t keep them down
  5. Awareness & Accountability gives you POWER
  6. You have the power within
  7. Stop looking outside yourself
  8. You are loved and adored

 

NO ONE IS MORE PRIVILEGED THAN YOU

You know there’s a lot of talk about “white privilege” this and “male privilege” that.    I have news for you.

 

I believe with everything within me that:

 

YOU CO-CREATE YOUR LIFE.  

YOU CO-CREATE MY REALITY.  

 

I REFUSE TO FOCUS ON ANYTHING OTHER THAN MY CO-CREATIVE POWER.   

 

I am writing this because I woke up to so many of my colleagues in this Transformation Industry feeling as though they were wrong because they were born the way they were.  THEY were thinking that they could not understand the “struggle” and were born into bodies where they may receive some advantages or are seen as having it “easier: so they were in some way wrong and needed to be “schooled.”

 

Does God see us as different?  Does he say well Christine is this weight this color and this height so I am not going to Love her or Support her as much As I will support this other person?  

 

HELL NO.

 

Does the Universe say Ask, Believe Receive is good for you…but you person with the brown skin … Not you.  

 

HELL NO.

 

I believe we choose what bodies we were born into.  We chose the families we would be apart of. I believe I chose to be born in this century as a beautiful black woman who CREATES HER OWN REALITY.  A woman who co-creates with the Universe and who knows that God has her BACK.

 

So do my colleagues need to walk on eggshells thinking if they say this thing or that thing they will get BLASTED or that they can’t relate to this race or that race because they “don’t’ understand the struggles”…

 

HELL NO.


To my colleagues and friends doing this Transformational Work, Please continue to do you.  Continue to spread your message how you feel you should. Be unfiltered. Do what you do in Love and following your AlignedSoul  guidance and DO YOU.  When you are 100% yourself, unfiltered and not worried about what others think…THEN AND ONLY THEN can your message be HEARD by who it was meant for.

 

 

I DO NOT BUY INTO THE BELIEF OF PRIVILEGE

 

I don’t buy into the whole “people born with more privilege than me” thing.  If you want to, good for you. But me, NOPE.

 

NO WAY FUCK THIS SHIT GIF

 

Don’t get me wrong.  

 

We live in this 3D world.  When you focus solely on what you see and what has already manifested (all the old news as far as energetic creation is concerned) …

 

When you focus solely on what you see, well hell yeah you will see people who may be doing better than you.  If you are a “minority” or whatever else you are labeled, you will people who may you may seem to think have a “leg up” on you…

 

Yes there are some people who were born male, rich or white or there are women seen as prettier and sexier and inherently more desirable by “this world” than you. etc etc.  But does that make them as a whole more privileged than you?

 

NOPE!

If you focus on what someone has that is different than you then everyone on this earth can say that SOMEONE has more privilege than them.

 

DEFINITION OF PRIVILEGE

 

Privilege is defined as: a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group of people.

 

There are very many people of all races ages and sexes that I am living a better life than.  

 

Do I have the Christine Privilege?

Do I have the “born in a middle class home” privilege?

Should I be ashamed that I wasn’t born poorer.

 

No, Nope and No.

 

The more people there are that are doing their thing and rocking out their lives in all ways including financially and spiritually, the more people that can be lifted UP.  The more we love one another and allow each other to BE whomever they are, the MORE People WE can TOUCH, INSPIRE AND UPLIFT.

 

There really aren’t any rights or advantages that anyone else has that I do not.  I refuse to believe that I am inherently BEHIND because of the Color of the Body I chose to be born into.

 

YOU KNOW WHAT???

 

YOU CO-CREATE YOUR REALITY

You Create Your Reality!   

 

It is my knowing that you live in this UNIVERSE AND YOU CO-CREATE YOUR  REALITY.  

 

YOU CO-CREATE YOUR LIFE with God, the Universe and a host of Angels who go out of their way for your..

 

Ever since I was a young girl my parents TAUGHT ME that I couldn’t be STOPPED!  My parents are Christian.  For them it is all about ASK, BELIEVE, RECEIVE.

 

You ask God, you believe it’s yours and you receive it.  For them it didn’t matter if I was BLACK, BROWN, WHITE… WTF ever!

 

I DON’T BELIEVE that there’s any other group or any person or any thing outside of ME who can stop ME.  

 

tika sumptner i got the power gif

 

 

JIM CROW SOUTH COULDN’T KEEP THEM DOWN

My parents grew up in the 60s they grew up In Jim Crow New Orleans.  They grew up in the south…the dirty dirty Deep South. My parents grew up where the good water fountains were for “Whites Only” and they could only go to one side of the park at the Lake…The “Black” Side.

 

DESPITE ALL OF THAT….My parents didn’t raise me to think that because of what they experienced that my life would be HARD.

 

NO they did EXACTLY the OPPOSITE!!!!  

 

They raised me to know that I could do any DAMN  thing that I desire.   

 

They taught me that EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD THAT I DESIRE COULD BE MINE

 

They taught me that If I KNOW IT IS MINE and FEEL it NOW I could HAVE IT NOW.

So guess what, I ask for what I want, I DECIDE it is MINE NOW.

 

 

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No One Is More Privileged Than You

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NO ONE IS MORE PRIVILEGED THAN YOU

There is NOONE ON this EARTH who is MORE PRIVILEGED THAN YOU.

 

YOU ARE A CHILD OF FREAKIN’ GOD!  You are a part of this UNIVERSE that GOES OUT OF IT’S WAY FOR YOU!!!

 

THAT IS WHO YOU ARE  

 

Don’t get me wrong….

 

YES there are people that will DISCRIMINATE.  

YES THERE WILL ALWAYS BE IGNORANT PEOPLE.

YES THERE are people that I DO NOT AGREE with.

 

BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?????   

 

Everybody gets to have their DAMN opinion because nothing that they do can change what I can do.

 

YOU GET to DECIDE where you go.

YOU GET to DECIDE how much you grow.

YOU DECIDE.

 

When you ENERGETICALLY ALIGN with what you want NO ONE can stop you.

 

There is no person on this earth who’s more privileged than you.

We are all equally privileged.

 

My parents who were born in the projects Desire Projects in the 60s manifested themselves from poverty to upper middle class without college educations.  

 

And if my parents who were discriminated against, had to sit in the back of the bus could create a beautiful life and raise their children to know that there are NO LIMITS…what are you waiting for?

 

What is your EXCUSE?

 

obama what is your excuse

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THE TIME IS NOW

 

You are living in a time where you have more access than EVER before.  

You don’t have to do it the same way it has already been done.

The US vs. THEM mentality will keep you RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE.

If you like it then more POWER TO YOU.

 

UNTIL… AND I’m Speaking DIRECTLY TO ANYONE WHO FEELS SLIGHTED because they may be what some people considered not apart of this “privileged group”….

 

 

    • UNTIL YOU KNOW that NO ONE IS MORE privileged than YOU
    • UNTIL YOU KNOW that YOU CO-CREATE YOUR REALITY and NO ONE CAN
    • UNTIL YOU KNOW NO ONE CAN STOP YOU FROM CREATING WHATEVER YOU DESIRE…
    • UNTIL YOU KNOW that all you have to do is DECIDE what you DESIRE, ALIGN with it, and TAKE Inspired Soul Aligned Actions EACH AND EVERY DAY

 

UNTIL THEN …. You’re going to continue to experience what you are experiencing.  You will stay where you are 1) feeling as though one group has a leg up on you and 2)feeling as though you are running a losing race three steps behind.  

 

 

 

AWARENESS AND ACCOUNTABILITY GIVES YOU POWER

 

Being AWARE of what you are feeling and thinking, then taking accountability for WHERE YOU ARE GIVES YOU POWER.

When you blame someone else, you 1) give them the power over you and 2) remove your power to change.

I say this in total love and support.  I know some f’d up stuff happens and I know it isn’t all unicorns and rainbows. 

But what I also know is that when you look at a situation from a place of “Ok this is something that happened, I co-create my reality so somewhere I chose this, matched the energy of it or selected to experience this prior to when I arrived on this earth.   Now, what do I choose.  Now, what do I want to experience.  Now, how do I want to look at this situation?”

  You look at my life and I am doing WAY better than most people.  I do not say this to brag,

 

When you accept that you attracted or co-created or selected to experience a situation, it ALLOWS YOU the POWER to CHANGE.  It gives you the POWER to CHOOSE SOMETHING ELSE.

 

 

OH THE PLACES YOU COULD GO

If you love yourself and those around you….

if you allow those around you to have what they have whether that be their opinions, their money, their connections, their friends and whatever else….

 

….And not see who chose to come into this world being as a limitation….

 

OHHHH ALL THE PLACES YOU COULD GO

ALL THE PEOPLE YOU COULD MEET

ALL THE THINGS YOU COULD CREATE

 

I refuse to see being Black or a Woman as a Limitation.  I see it as a part of who I am. It is a small piece of what this world identifies me to be.  And I am going to be 100 percent all the time.

 

Stop Looking Outside Of Yourself

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YOU HAVE THE POWER WITHIN

Focus on what you want.  

Stand in the feeling of having what you DESIRE.  

 

NO ONE IN THIS WORLD can stop you from aligning with what you are vibrating.

 

NO ONE IN THIS WORLD can stop you from aligning with & receiving what you are vibrating with.

 

This is so powerful.

  • The more people that know THIS the more people that are going to stand up become everything they desire.  
  • The more people that know this the more self-made millionaires they will be.
  • The more people that know this the more people will be living lives they dreamed about as little girls and boys.
  • The more people that know this the more people we will have standing in LOVE instead of JUDGEMENT.

 

There is no one on this earth more privileged than you.

 

 

STOP LOOKING OUTSIDE YOURSELF

Until you stop looking outside of yourself for reasons why people are so successful or rich or so this or that …. you will not be whatever it is you want to be.  I teach about Law of Attraction and Law of Vibration, ASK BELIEVE RECEIVE for so many reasons… but the MOST IMPORTANT REASON is this…

 

When you know the kind of POWER that YOU HAVE…

When you know that YOU ARE UNLIMITED…

When you know that THERE ARE NO LIMITATIONS except for the ones YOU BELIEVE IN...

When you know that GOD/UNIVERSE/SOURCE or whatever omnipresent force you believe in HAS YOUR BACK EQUALLY…

 

THEN & ONLY THEN will you be able to STOP GIVING OTHERS POWER over YOU AND YOUR SUCCESS

 

 

ASK, DECIDE, BELIEVE, FEEL, ACT AND RECEIVE

  • You Ask.
  • You Decide it is yours.
  • You Believe and Know it is DONE.  It is YOURS..
  • You Feel the feeling of having it NOW.
  • You Take Algiend Soul Actions.
  • You Receive.

 

That is how it works.  

 

There is no one on this earth that can stop you from RECEIVING whatever the heck you want.

 

So, what do you want?  

 

  • Do you want a thriving business or career success?  
  • Do you want to live in an environment where you feel safe and free?
  • Do you want to live somewhere where your future children can have be or do whatever they desire?
  • Do you want to have an amazing love relationship with an awesome guy?
  • Do you want to feel healthy and have more energy than you ever thought possible?

 

What do You Want?

 

Think about that.  Listen to your Soul.  

 

  • Ask for it.
  • Decide it is YOURS NOW.
  • Believe and KNOW that it is DONE.  It is YOURS.
  • Feel the FEELING of HAVING IT NOW.
  • Take those Aligned Soul Actions each and everyday.
  • Receive it!

 

It’s that easy.  It is as easy as you BELIEVE it CAN BE.

 

There’s no more privileged than YOU.

NO ONE can stop YOU.

 

NO ONE NO ONE NO ONE

Unless YOU BELIEVE that they CAN.

Your beliefs are YOUR REALITY.

 

YOU ARE LOVED AND ADORED

 

The Universe loves you equally.  

Universe has your back and her back and everyone else’s back EQUALLY.

You are so LOVED and ADORED.

You are so WORTHY.

You are MORE THAN ENOUGH.

 

Share this with someone who needs to hear that THERE IS NO ONE MORE Privileged than THEM.

 

 

 

JOURNAL PROMPT

JOURNAL PROMPT - What am I not allowing myself to do that I would do if I thought there were no limitations on me?Click To Tweet

 

After you finish journaling, ask yourself what AlignedSoul Actions You can Take today.

 

 

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Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

Be Her Now | Take AlignedSoul™ Action Today

 

PS:  Are you Ready to go from "Not Enough" to "Abundant AF"?  It's been one year and the book you have been asking for is finally HERE. 

 

 
 

Pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 
 

The Aligned Receiver lays out the essential woo-woo spiritual plus the do-practical play by play for manifesting a life beyond your wildest imagination. Learn how to confidently receive your desires.

 

READ TO LEARN

  • Why Receiving is Equal to Giving
  • That the Universe Is Your Sugar Daddy.  Find out how to work with the masculine & feminine energy
  • How to Quantum Manifest by becoming a Master Receiver
  • What the Shadow Archetypes In Receiving are and how to integrate them quickly
  • The 90 Day Play by Play to Receiving more money, love, relationships, health and whatever else you desire
 
 

Becoming The Aligned Receiver will change your life.  Finally, tap into your birthright of Abundance of ALL THE THINGS including Money, Joy, Love, Health and so much more.

  • No More Push - Struggle - Overwhelm
  • Go from having No Money to Receiving Overflow
  • Learn to Receive with Ease
  • Do Less & Receive So Much More
  • Listen to Your Intuition and receive Guidance with Ease
 
 
After reading The Aligned Receiver and doing the exercises you will:
  • See the massive shifts and changes and finally witness The Universe come to your aid.
  • Allow receiving to become a #normal for you.
  • Embrace ease and flow as your natural states.
  • Allow your dream life to be #ofcourse.
  • Show up in the world as your Best Self NOW
  • Lift your vibration and the vibration of those around you just by living your best life now and showing them what is possible.

 

Remember, pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT  - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 

 

WHAT DID YOU THINK OF THIS ARTICLE?

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Impostor Syndrome is Feeling Unworthy

Impostor Syndrome is Feeling Unworthy

Hi Gorgeous!

 

Impostor Syndrome is just Unworthiness.  In this article I talk about Impostor Syndrome and how it is a reflection of Unworthiness you feel inside.  Read more to find out:

  1. What is Impostor Syndrome
  2. Why Impostor Syndrome is More Prevalent Among Women
  3. Observations from a Corporate Life
  4. The Journal Prompt that will help you tap into your Worthiness

 

WHAT IS IMPOSTOR SYNDROME

Impostor Syndrome is just another name for unworthiness.  The phrase impostor syndrome was coined by psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes in 1978.  It was mainly prevalent among highly accomplished women who were convinced they were “frauds and did not deserve the success that they had achieved.  They believed that they had some sort of luck or good timing” or maybe even it was deceit that go them where they were…

 

WHY IMPOSTOR SYNDROME IS MORE PREVALENT AMONG WOMEN

Why was Impostor Syndrome more prevalent among women?  

 

Men are taught at a very young age to:

  • Stretch themselves
  • Man Up
  • Be who they want to be
  • Take credit for their Successes and Failures
  • Be Proud of What they have Accomplished
  • Speak Up  
  • Be Seen
  • Be Heard

 

On the other hand, at a young age You were taught

  • Sit Down.  
  • Pull Your Dress Down  
  • Be a good little girl
  • Don’t be too loud
  • That’s not lady like
  • You are too intimidating
  • Be quiet
  • Behind every good man is a good woman
  • Be independent ….but not toooooo independent
  • Don’t be High Maintenance (whatever that means)
  • Be grateful for whatever you receive, don’t want to seem greedy

 

Also, as a nurturer, You naturally put Team First.  You rarely give yourself Credit.  Often, you feel it is wrong to recognize your own achievement first. You view giving yourself credit as selfish.    Often, you have money issues and feel as though it is rude to talk about it and you can’t ask for more. They often don’t ask for what they are worth.  

 

Society says:

Men ask for more, they have High Standards.

Women are told they are High Maintenance.

 

Men are said to be making and investment when purchasing something.

Women are told they are wasteful.

 

My question to you, are you going to allow Society to determine your Worthiness?  

It’s your choice.

 

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Observations From a Corporate Life

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OBSERVATIONS FROM A CORPORATE LIFE

These are just observations that I have made after 20+ years experience in the corporate world.  In working with both men and women I observed that…

  • The male candidate/colleague talks himself up even if it was obvious he doesn’t have the experience.  He makes it clear he is great at everything he had done at that point in his life and he can step in and do any job.  Then when it came to negotiating salary, the male candidate did not hesitate to ask for more.

  • Where as a woman even if she has the experience and ran a large team gives all the credit to her team and none to herself.  Only when asked directly, did she speak about the amazing stuff she accomplished.  Then when it came to negotiating salary, the female candidate did not ask for more.  More often than not she accepted the first number offered to her with no attempt to negotiate.

 

I remember watching “So Cosmo” on the E Network.  Joanna Cole Chief Content Officer for Hearst Magazines was promoting her Beauty Editor.  After Joanna shared the promotion news, she sat there waiting for her newly promoted employee (a female) to ask how much her new position paid.  When she didn’t ask how much she was being paid, Joanna made a point to say something to the point that it was a shame that women just aren’t taught to be comfortable talking about money.

 

Women haven’t been taught that it is OK and EXPECTED to discuss money.  Women haven’t been taught to ask how much is this job paying, what is the range and properly negotiate salary and ask for what they are worth.

 

Here’s the crux of it …worth … worthiness.  

 

Today when you hear about “impostor syndrome” you hear about it among high performing women in all levels of business and entrepreneur circles.

 

Why?

 

Because these women are stretching themselves and stepping into amazing opportunities and new roles created FOR them BY them.  These women are becoming so much more and aren’t feeling worthy of what they are stepping into.

 

If you go back to the beginning of this article and look at the paradigms that most young girls were raised under it is obvious why these powerful talented women entrepreneurs believe their success is “luck” or that they unworthy of everything that they created in life.

 

They have this strong belief that comes from thoughts that they have been thinking about themselves their entire lives.  They have always thought that they weren’t enough or that they weren’t worthy

 

That is BS.  

 

Listen to me.  That is complete and utter Bull Shit.

 

You are worthy.  

 

You are worthy.   

 

Just for the fact that you are here on this earth breathing and living means you are worthy.  You are loved and worthy beyond measure. You are adored. You are freaking worthy!!!

 

Say it after me… I am worthy.    Say it “I am freaking worthy!!”

 

YOU ARE WORTHY

I’ve had clients tell me… oh I can’t post that or say what I believe because I don’t want anyone to say I am being an impostor.

 

It really doesn’t matter what you want to post or say.  What matters is that you believe in it. What matters is that it is something that you desire or something that is on your heart.  It is something you aspire to or it is something that you believe yourself to be or becoming.

 

  • First, If what you are posting or saying is something you truly believe how could you possibly be an impostor?

 

  • Second, why do you care what someone else says?  Clearly, the person who is calling you an impostor isn’t your friend or anyone who needs to be in your circle because that person isn’t someone who uplifts you.

 

  • Third, you will never please everyone.  Pleasing other people is should never be your goal.  There are 7 billion people on this planet and there are a group of people who are your people.  Your peeps who vibe on the level with you and align with what you align with and those are the people you are talking to.  Those are the people who get the real you. You can just be you. Say what you say and it is all good.

 

The other people who may be pissed because you used a curse word or said the Universe instead of God or God instead of the Universe or whatever other reason people choose not to vibe with you… those people aren’t your people and you should get excited when they unsubscribe or move on to follow or buy from someone else.

 

It is ok.  There is someone for everyone.  God made this beautiful world full of wonderful people and great soul tribes for everyone to vibe with!  Like will attract like.  It will happen.  It is law.

 

Do You Boo

 

So please, go ahead LIVE YOUR LIFE.

Post what you want to post.

Say what you feel inspired to say.

Speak up in the Meeting.

Open the business you want to Open.

Stand Up and Be who you Want to BE.

Say what you want to Say.

 

Do You BOO and move on because really everyone has so much going on in their own lives they don’t really care anyway.

 

Here’s the thing…

 

When you know that you are you are worthy just because you are here on this earth… you could never be an imposter.

 

You are creating the life you desire to live.  You are creating the business you desire to have.  You are standing in the person you know you are.

 

Do it.  Stand in it NOW.   

 

Was Muhammad Ali the Greatest Boxer in the World when he claimed first started claiming he was?

 

NO!.  

 

Was he an Imposter?

 

NO!.

 

Muhammad Ali was BEING the Greatest Boxer and then he BECAME the Greatest Boxer in the World.  

 

Stand Up and Be who you know you are NOW.

 

Match that energy NOW.

 

That is not being an Imposter.  That is creating your reality.

 

impostor Syndrome… Shut that Shit Down & Let all that Shit Go.

 

And one more time:  Speak it with me… I am worthy.    Say it “I am freaking worthy!!”

 

 

Keep Reading to find out THE Journal Prompt to do when you are feeling like an Impostor or when you need to tap into your Worthiness!

 

 

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DO THIS JOURNAL PROMPT WHEN YOU ARE FEELING LIKE AN IMPOSTOR OR NEED TO TAP INTO YOUR WORTHINESS

 

JOURNAL PROMPT: Write two pages of all the reasons why you are worthy.

When you can’t think of any more reasons, write:

  • I am worthy just because I am.
  • I am worthy just because I am me.
  • I am worthy.
  • I am freaking worthy.
  • I am m f’ng worthy.
  • I am so darn worthy.
  • I am freaking worthy.
  • I am really really really worthy.
  • I am sooooooo worthy.
  • I am worthy.
  • I am worthy.
  • I am worthy.
  • I am worthy

 

Keep going. Keep repeating reasons.

Because you know what?

You are freaking worthy. You are amazing. You are a gift to this world.

Out of 7 Billion people, there is only one you.

Wow… if that isn’t worthy I don’t know what is.

 

 

 

JOURNAL PROMPT

JOURNAL PROMPT: Write two pages of all the reasons why you are worthy. And when you can’t think of anymore just write I am worthy just because I am. I am worthy just because I am me. I am worthy. I am freaking worthy. I am m f’ng worthy. I am so darn worthy. I am freaking worthy. I am really really really worthy. I am sooooooo worthy. I am worthy. I am worthy. I am worthy. I am worthy. And just keep going. Keep repeating reasons. Because you know what? You are freaking worthy. You are amazing. You are a gift to this world. Out of 7 Billion people there is only one you. Wow… if that isn’t worthy i don't know what is.Click To Tweet

 

 

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Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

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PS:  Are you Ready to go from "Not Enough" to "Abundant AF"?  It's been one year and the book you have been asking for is finally HERE. 

 

 
 

Pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 
 

The Aligned Receiver lays out the essential woo-woo spiritual plus the do-practical play by play for manifesting a life beyond your wildest imagination. Learn how to confidently receive your desires.

 

READ TO LEARN

  • Why Receiving is Equal to Giving
  • That the Universe Is Your Sugar Daddy.  Find out how to work with the masculine & feminine energy
  • How to Quantum Manifest by becoming a Master Receiver
  • What the Shadow Archetypes In Receiving are and how to integrate them quickly
  • The 90 Day Play by Play to Receiving more money, love, relationships, health and whatever else you desire
 
 

Becoming The Aligned Receiver will change your life.  Finally, tap into your birthright of Abundance of ALL THE THINGS including Money, Joy, Love, Health and so much more.

  • No More Push - Struggle - Overwhelm
  • Go from having No Money to Receiving Overflow
  • Learn to Receive with Ease
  • Do Less & Receive So Much More
  • Listen to Your Intuition and receive Guidance with Ease
 
 
After reading The Aligned Receiver and doing the exercises you will:
  • See the massive shifts and changes and finally witness The Universe come to your aid.
  • Allow receiving to become a #normal for you.
  • Embrace ease and flow as your natural states.
  • Allow your dream life to be #ofcourse.
  • Show up in the world as your Best Self NOW
  • Lift your vibration and the vibration of those around you just by living your best life now and showing them what is possible.

 

Remember, pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT  - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 

 

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If Kardashian-Jenner Success Triggers You…

If Kardashian-Jenner Success Triggers You…

Hi Gorgeous!

 

In this article, I talk about Triggers.  Kylie Jenner of the famed Kardashian-Jenner family was named the Youngest Self-Made Billionaire.  This triggered so many people in so many different ways.  If you were not triggered, this is a great article for you to read to find out why others were triggered.  If you were triggered, this article is great for you to read because you get to learn that triggers are all about you and what you have going on inside.  Want to know why Kylie’s success triggered you, keep reading.  You will also find out what to do next time you get triggered so that you can grow and expand instead of breaking your iPhone against a wall.

 

In the article, you are going to read about:

  • Self-Made Billionaire – who knew those words could trigger
  • It comes down to Mindset
  • Mindset Exercise
  • 4 Limiting Belief Breakdown
  • 5 Steps to take next time you are triggered

 

 

KYLIE JENNER – YOUNGEST SELF-MADE BILLIONAIRE   

Kylie Jenner has become the youngest Self-Made Billionaire Ever.  She reached the 10-Figure Fortune before Mark Zuckerberg (Facebook Founder) who was 21 when he reached Billionaire Status.  When this was announced haters and confused people all over the world made their disdain know.  With cries of “She isn’t self-made” and other negative comments that have nothing to do with this powerful business and Brand that King-Kylie has been able to create.  Check out the Forbes Article (link below) that goes into greater detail about Kylie and her Billion Dollar Empire.

 

Link to Forbes Articles:

 

I found that even people in the Manifesting Community were also chapped and this boggled my mind for a second.  It was until I stepped back and looked at the Energetics of it all that it became so clear.  The people who were so upset at another woman’s success were playing in a Scarcity Mindset Place.  Their triggered response was driven by their current mindset.

 

Let’s talk Mindset and why it is so important to your success in all areas of your life.

 

 

IT ALL COMES DOWN TO YOUR MINDSET

The reason you will never be “the youngest self-made billionaire” or have “the love of your life” or “body of your dreams” is YOU.   YOUR MINDSET–YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR BELIEFS, YOUR ENERGETIC VIBRATION is the REASON You STAY STUCK. 

 

The only way for you to achieve whatever you desire is for you to embody the MINDSET of someone who ALREADY has what you desire.  You have to BE whatever you desire before you BECOME it.

 

EXAMPLEMuhammad Ali was saying that he was The Greatest Fight Ever BEFORE he BECAME the Greatest Fight Ever.  He embodied his greatness before anyone else ever saw it.  He believed he was and then he became.

 

When you look at others’ success and you get triggered take note.  Do not to judge yourself.  Only Observe.

  • What are the thoughts you are thinking?
  • Why does this topic or situation make you so upset or frustrated, mad or sad…pick an emotion…
  • Are you upset because you do not believe you too can have the same thing, situation, feeling?

 

The answer is always INSIDE of YOU.  Not the person. Not the situation… YOU

 

You have to BE whatever you desire before you BECOME it.Click To Tweet

 

 

MINDSET EXERCISE

Kylie Jenner became the youngest Billionaire.  Her SoulTribe Followers are donating to the cause to help it happen even faster.

QUESTIONS

  • WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THAT?
  • WHAT IS YOUR INITIAL REACTION?

 

Remember No Judgement.  Just observation.

 

 

MY REACTION

KYLIE IS A MANIFESTING GENIUS

  • King Kylie is a FREAKIN’ POWERFUL MANIFESTOR

 

SHE’S A RELATIONSHIP BUILDER

  • Kylie created RELATIONSHIPS with her Tribe.  Know Like and Trust to the millionth power!
  • Kylie has not only CREATED a product people love BUT she has  created her own SoulTribe who love whatever she creates and will do whatever they can do to support her success

 

HER VULNERABILITY CREATED LEMONADE OUT OF LEMONS

  • Kylie has monetized something she was once ashamed of “her lips” and came out and was honest and vulnerable about something she was nervous to tell the world (her lip injections) and now she created a Billion Dollar Empire around that very thing…?

 

All of THIS is ADMIRABLE AF

  • Even with my 20+ years in high levels of the World’s Most Recognized Brands, I could learn something from her.  She knows how to create a successful brand.  Hell, all of her family especially her mother knows how to create a successful brand.

 

 

OTHER PEOPLE’S TAKE…

  1.   Kylie isn’t self-made.  She was born into it.
  2.   People shouldn’t give Kylie money.  She is already rich.
  3.   All Kylie does is talk on social media and film a show.  That isn’t hard work
  4.   Kylie has a team.  She isn’t self-made.

 

Instead of countering each one of these points, I want to take a deeper look at 4 prevalent Limiting Beliefs behind these thoughts.  These Limiting Beliefs are keeping you stuck where you are and now you can use this information to move forward.

 

 

Limiting Belief Breakdown

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LIMITING BELIEF BREAKDOWN

Now let’s OBSERVE what LIMITING BELIEFS making themselves known:

 

1) LIMITING BELIEF: It’s not fair.  I can’t have this because I wasn’t born into it.  So I am going to belittle her success

She isn’t Self Made?  Well, she wasn’t born into a billion dollar lip brand.  She was born into the same family that Robert Jr was born into.  Does he have a. billion-dollar brand? NO.

 

If you want to have a billion-dollar brand, you can have one too.   You have access to the same Source and Same Internal Guidance.  You have the ability to be as authentic, vulnerable and as open about stuff you are scared to share with the world.  You can also create products or share a message that you have passion and excitement about and create a Soul tribe and or Brand.

 

Mark Z wasn’t born into Facebook.  Steve Jobs didn’t get born into Apple.  Sara Blakely wasn’t born into her Billion Dollar Spanx Empire.

 

Sara Blakely said, “I’d been doing visualizing, being very specific, asking for an idea that would change my life and change other people’s lives…”

 

You see… Sara did the work.  Sara shifted her Mindset. Sara was asking for Guidance.  Sara visualized. She trusted Guidance. She took action on her idea.

 

These are ALL THINGS YOU CAN DO.

 

 

2) LIMITING BELIEF: There is only ONE Limited Finite Pie

People shouldn’t give her money.  She is already rich…

 

Why does this trigger you so much?  Could it be that you believe in shortage mentality?  You have lack mindset going. You are asking why give to her because there is only this pie here so if you give to her you are taking away from me?

 

Here is the GOOD NEWS.  There is no Limit. Abundance is unlimited.  Think about it.  Our economy continues to grow and scale leaps and bounds and continues to create more millionaires than ever existed before on the planet.

 

There is no Limit UNLESS you believe it so.

 

If you know anything about the Law of Attraction and Law of Vibration, then you know that when you are ALIGNED with the ENERGY of ABUNDANCE and RECEIVING then you RECEIVE.  The more you are aligned with receiving the more you receive.

 

This is why wealthy people receive the $50K swag bags and get meals comped.  This is why super-rich folks receive discount after discount even though they aren’t asking for it.  Money and Abundance flow into their experience in multiple ways. They make themselves available for opportunities.  They are open to receiving in many ways.

 

When you look upon someone who is doing well and you curse at them or are triggered it is because YOU are not open to receiving.

 

Observe your reaction to the thought of a Millionaire receiving something for Free.  If you are appalled at that idea, ask yourself why.

 

It is probably because you believe in limits and you don’t realize that this Universe is UNLIMITED and whatever that person is receiving you can CO-CREATE IT with God/Universe/Source TOO.

 

 

3) LIMITING BELIEF:  You have to work hard for it otherwise it isn’t worth it

 

You have been conditioned to believe the only money worth having or receiving is the money you work HARD for.  That is why you belittle Kylie’s success as her being BORN INTO IT or ONLY USING SNAPS and SOCIAL MEDIA. It is “too easy” to be worth anything.

 

Do you realize Ease and Flow is your natural birthright?  This life wasn’t meant for you to ride the Struggle Bus to Broke Town every single day.

  • Ease is a Choice
  • Flow is a Choice
  • Abundance in all areas of your life is a Choice
  • Love is a Choice

 

You keep glorifying struggle and you remain in struggle.  One ticket to Broke Town on the Struggle Bus coming right up…

 

 

4) LIMITING BELIEF: I have to do this all on my own.  Receiving Support makes me Weak. It makes it too easy so I must work harder and struggle by myself.

 

Just like you have been conditioned to believe in Hard Work is the Only Way…You also have been conditioned to believe that receiving Support is a sign of weakness.

 

But is that true?

 

IS THAT THE MESSAGE COMING FROM INSIDE YOU OR Is that the message coming from your conditioned thoughts and beliefs that aren’t even YOURS?

 

Universe/God/Source is on the READY RIGHT NOW.  Universe/God/Source is ready to send help for all the things directly to you.

 

But because you have this idea that if you received help it would make you look weak or

It would make your accomplishment not as worthy or

Not make your parents or friends as proud of you as they would be if you struggled for years and worked really hard all by yourself…

 

You have chosen to not open your eyes to all of the help Guidance is sending your way.

 

The truth is the MORE SUPPORT you allow yourself to RECEIVE, the MORE SUCCESS you will have.  It took a long time for me to realize this.  I have been a CONTROLLING-TYPE person wanting my hands in everything.  It wasn’t until I started receiving help and acknowledging that help from people and of course God that my business TOOK OFF.

 

NEWSFLASH: Receiving help doesn’t make you weak, It allows you to receive more.  It helps you create faster. It helps you focus on what you do best.

 

Kylie having a team is what was necessary to scale her business from just one lip kit to a makeup empire.

 

The Coca-Cola Company isn’t a company of 1.

Victoria’s Secret isn’t a business built by 1 person.

 

All successful organizations which were most likely started by 1 person grew into a business full of people supporting that vision.

 

This doesn’t make the founder weak or the business less than.  It helps alleviate the founder’s time and energy so that they can focus on their art, their gift, their genius.

 

Keep Reading to find out the 5 Steps to take the next time Kylie, Kim or anything else triggers you.

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Triggered?  Take these 5 Steps to Move Through

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TRIGGERED?  TAKE THESE 5 STEPS

 

So next time you find yourself scrolling your feed and you get triggered,

 

1) SAY THANK YOU to whatever is triggering you

 

2) Then become AWARE of what you are thinking

 

3) Observe from a space of LOVE and from the eyes of your Inner Being/From the Eyes of your SOUL.

 

4) BE REAL with yourself about why this situation is triggering you so much.

  • Do you want what they have and think you can’t have it now?
  • Would you like to be a little bit more forward and bold like they are being?
  • What is this situation reflecting back to you about what is going on INSIDE?

 

5) TELL YOURSELF the real truth that your Soul is telling you about whatever limiting belief or idea you have.  

 

6) Reframe those thoughts or beliefs and CHOOSE to shift.  Decide to believe the TRUTH.

 

 

Remember it can be that easy. It is as easy as we allow it to be.

 

Congratulations to Kylie Jenner for being on track to becoming one of the youngest Billionaires on the Planet.  

 

Congratulations to her for showing all of us WHAT IS POSSIBLE.

 

Tell me your feelz and what this has revealed to you about your triggers lately.

 

 

Hugs, Kisses & all the Feelz,

Christine Michelle

Be Her Now | Take AlignedSoul™ Action Today

 

PS:  Are you Ready to go from "Not Enough" to "Abundant AF"?  It's been one year and the book you have been asking for is finally HERE. 

 

 
 

Pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 
 

The Aligned Receiver lays out the essential woo-woo spiritual plus the do-practical play by play for manifesting a life beyond your wildest imagination. Learn how to confidently receive your desires.

 

READ TO LEARN

  • Why Receiving is Equal to Giving
  • That the Universe Is Your Sugar Daddy.  Find out how to work with the masculine & feminine energy
  • How to Quantum Manifest by becoming a Master Receiver
  • What the Shadow Archetypes In Receiving are and how to integrate them quickly
  • The 90 Day Play by Play to Receiving more money, love, relationships, health and whatever else you desire
 
 

Becoming The Aligned Receiver will change your life.  Finally, tap into your birthright of Abundance of ALL THE THINGS including Money, Joy, Love, Health and so much more.

  • No More Push - Struggle - Overwhelm
  • Go from having No Money to Receiving Overflow
  • Learn to Receive with Ease
  • Do Less & Receive So Much More
  • Listen to Your Intuition and receive Guidance with Ease
 
 
After reading The Aligned Receiver and doing the exercises you will:
  • See the massive shifts and changes and finally witness The Universe come to your aid.
  • Allow receiving to become a #normal for you.
  • Embrace ease and flow as your natural states.
  • Allow your dream life to be #ofcourse.
  • Show up in the world as your Best Self NOW
  • Lift your vibration and the vibration of those around you just by living your best life now and showing them what is possible.

 

Remember, pre-Order today and you receive my TOP Manifesting Workshop - Journal Manifest Win as a GIFT  - Only the first 100 Pre-Orders.

 

 

WHAT DID YOU THINK OF THIS ARTICLE?

  • For more manifesting goodness, join  The AlignedSoul Collective FB Group.  get notifications when new video tips are available!
  • If you like fun videos about manifesting, energetic frequency and more, subscribe to The AlignedSoul TV Youtube Channel.
  • Leave a comment below and tell me what money manifesting struggles you have experienced.
  • Share this post with others so they can get the inside scoop on manifesting, mindset, mindfulness and magic. Simply click the social media sharing buttons below to impact some lives now!!

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